Namaste, my dear flames 
Many are devastated over the fact that their TFs behave very hurtful and mean etc. See this from a higher perspective, guys 
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There are many layers to this. Hurt is only a 3D construct and comes from lack. Lack of love, safety, reciprocation etc. In 5D we have whatever we need. We don’t lack anything and our self-love is at its maximum.
See this from a bigger picture. The hurt-tool, from Universe, is needed for us to have our lessons and to upgrade. This is why we have this runner-chaser-mirroring in this TF-journey.
First the DF chase and get hurt. Hence have their spiritual awakening, ego-death, soul-shock, transformation and in the end of the chaser-phase their self-love has increased. Spot on and big lesson from Universe that we should never chase externally for our happiness, because we are strong enough to create our own happiness and to protect our high vibration. This is done by balancing out the healthy masculine energies.
So… we see why we needed to get “hurt” to transform to more evolved and less vulnerable versions.
Then … the energetic shift happens; the DFs now stop chasing the DM, instead they actually start running from the DM and instead start running towards their own high vibration and happiness.
The DMs will feel this magnetic pull, start slowly chasing and then the hurt comes, DNOTS, awakening etc…. hence, transform… as the DFs did. They will balance out the feminine energies. The will chase the DM more and more until they start loving themselves because they also lack self-love. They were looking for love through their ego, not their hearts.
Ultimately both TFs will end up with so much self-love, that they won’t be so vulnerable while doing their divine missions and get less triggered in the 3D-world afterwards.
Union will happen when both love themselves enough and have balanced out both energies within…. and also at collective timing.
❤❤❤❤❤❤
