Namaste flames 
, this journey sort of follows these type of phases:
In the beginning- The DFs doesn’t love themselves – Their mirrorimage, the DMs won’t love them fully either. The DFs chase before and during the first part of the separation. During this chaser-phase, the DFs transform very much, due to it being very painful. The DFs ultimately learn to love themselves and their vibration increases very much. So much that they set boundaries for toxic behavior and don’t compromise their vibration.
So now the DFs are or will be full of self love, thus the DMs will love the DFs (as the DFs love themselves) and start chasing. But the DMs don’t love themselves enough, hence the DFs won’t love the DMs fully either.
Both TFs channel the other TF’s thoughts, hence when the DFs were chasing and not feeling good enough, the DMs exactly triggered the same issues in the DFs, so that they could work on their vulnerabilities. For example; if the DF had big insecurities about its tits to be to small, then the DM probably would have triggered this issue by liking and desiring women with big tits. This is channeling of the vulnerabilities in each twin flame. This is not done consciously. The purpose is to make us love every aspect of ourselves, so that we cannot be hurt. It’s about owning your vulnerability. And our TF makes us heal this. The same applies the other way. When we feel a disgust or anger towards our TF, then we channel this back towards them. Many of the DMs are narcissists, but after meeting the DFs, something in them got triggered lovewise. And the feeling of disgust is themselves starting to understand how repulsive they have behaved and toxic traits they have. We are only channeling and triggering their own vulnerabilities. This will ultimately make them transform and heal, so always be truthful towards them. You are only telling them what they think. I was told by my guides, in a channeling, that I am allowed to be angry towards them. I then, after a while, understood how it all is connected, bless my claircognizant gifts..haha. The same applies when you feel that he/she is behaving cowardly and/or in 3D and thinking about everyone else, like society, family, culture, religion, people etc. You are only feeling what they actually feel for themselves, not trusting the eternal love, but using ego and mind to face it. And they are shamed of feeling this way, so this is why you feel that they are cowards.
This runner-phase of the DFs will pull the DMs into the chaser-phase. And, as the DFs did, the DMs will transform to their ultimate version. But first they need to experience DNOTS, shredding of the ego, spiritual awakening and big transformation spiritually, personally, vibrationally etc.
Union will happen when both twin flames love themselves. Their mirrors will also love them back equally. This eternal balance will be restored and both will have both the feminine and masculine energies balanced internally and externally.
So… if you wonder where to start to heal this relationship; start loving yourself and set boundaries for toxic vibrations and protect your inner-child with everything you got. Because, my dears, your inner-child is your soul on core-level 
. And the mirroring will be like this; you love yourself, they will also start loving themselves.
This is actually a journey starting with us and ending with us. The difference is that we will be so much more lovings towards ourselves.
Vibe high, love unconditionally (including yourself) and laugh like you never did before. You are not alone, we are a huge family with lots of fantastic collective happenings coming up in the future. Love you all 
