I have a message for those TFs who have hurt their TFs. This applies especially to lots of DMs in their masculine 3D-energies, who repeatedly, consciously or unconsciously, hurt their DFs who gave the DMs their hearts. Many DMs who chose someone else over their DFs should also read this because the pain of seeing your eternal love being with someone else is off the charts.
First of all: You are meant to balance out your feminine energies, meaning to love unconditionally outwards.
The first step is put your toxic ego in the chamber of guilt and shame and rather act only from heart-space.
The second step is to take full accountability while using your empathy to understand how much you hurt them and their inner-child.
The third step is to express how sorry you are, without any form of manipulation because your DF will see right through this and possibly be even more repulsed by you. Be authentic and genuine. Don’t withhold anything, because the truth will always find a way. And the damage that this can lead to later on, can be huge in regards to trust, so don’t fear to tell the truth even if it’s nasty and toxic. The DFs are very strong. They appreciate and can handle/overcome every harsh truth, but they hate being lied to. That’s the worst thing for them.
The fourth step is to do this from an unconditional state and without expectations. Because whatever the outcome, you would at least have planted a very beautiful seed. Also, even if you didn’t get what you hoped for, your soul will be proud of you. Your self-worth will increase because you did the right thing. When the intention is pure, the soul wins. This will pave the way for more self-love.
The fear of rejection comes from your ego, but let me tell you one thing; If you, from your lust-space, ego or other 3D-conditional factors, chose someone else for a very long time, the pain of this really killed the soul of your DF every single day, because they were awakened to your connection. So however they react and hurt you this time, it’s nothing compared to how much pain they have endured. But put aside the ego and be from the heart-space, because this is the only way you will get closer to your TF.
It’s very important for you to have empathy for your DF and reflect on what they have been through. By being egoless, regretful and loving, your DF will actually mirror back this empathy and love towards you, because in their hearts there is only place for the transformed you. Authentic love is the only remedy to glue this divine partnership back together.
DMs, you got this. It probably will be hard, but nothing you can’t overcome. You are strong and you have so much love in you that you didn’t know existed. The payoff will be much better than you ever thought. But don’t let your ego stop you from feeling bad for your DFs because if you knew how much you hurt them, then you wouldn’t stop crying. For days.
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To the DMs
