Hi, guys…. I need to clarify why our higher-self, our guides and angels sometimes guide us towards negative situations. It’s connected to karmic clearance, lessons and, ultimately, to our transformation. Remember, it doesn’t happen TO us, but it happens FOR us.
Let me take an example;
I take a walk with my kid. We both know there will be a road filled with holes, so he isn’t looking forward to it because he hates such roads (his ego), but I assure him that he is safe since I’m with him. So I still guide him on the path. When we arrive I slowly let go of his hand, so he will manage the road by himself. Then when a hole appears, instead of avoiding it, he falls in. He gets hurt. He cries. He feels pain. But after a while feeling sorry for himself, because I’m there guiding him up from that hole, he manages to climb out after some attempts. All by himself. This was hurtful, but he now is empowered and doesn’t fear roads with holes, because he now knows how to avoid them AND also to climb up if he should fall in them.
My actions, as his parent, comes from my unconditional love towards him, because I know his highest potential and want him to realise how strong he is. Usually this potential is constricted by a fearbased ego. This is an analogy of how our higher-self, guides and angels lead us towards 3D-negative situations… for our greater good. Out of pure unconditional love 
Nothings happens as a fluke. There are greater lessons and a purpose behind it all.
My very 3D-toxic TF, killed my soul, for me to rise up as the phoenix. Her vile actions made me what I am today; opening my spiritual gifts, made me have strong empathy for lots of TFs and helping and guiding them, spreading awareness of narcissistic abuse and through this experiencing my self-worth, so that I can love myself even more. Everything is connected. Her 5D loves me so much that she was willing to play the role as the worst villain, here in 3D, in my life for me to be the hero I always was meant to be. Now, since I’m setting boundaries and not accepting her in 3D, this will lead to the same for her 3D. She is shredding her toxic traits, feeling more empathy for what she did to me (the role of the karmic giving her back the same treatment as she did to me), getting rid of her toxic ego, having her awakening etc. So it’s easy to see that her 5D made her 3D do things and run from me to, ultimately, transform her own 3D. It’s all connected. This is why we talk about oneness in spirituality.
Hope this clarifies
Your brother from the same esoteric mother
