It’s very usual for the DFs to have attachment-issues and the DMs to have commitment-issues when they meet. These issues often come from the TFs childhood. The common thread is lack of self-love.
The runner-chaser dynamics in the separation-phase often trigger these issues to be healed. The DFs will often be triggered on their attachment-issues, and the DMs will often be triggered on their commitment-issues.
The DFs will be used to not being afraid of being alone. The DMs will be used to not being afraid of being commited. Often this happens through the DMs being in karmic connections and the DFs being alone.
The DMs will through the karmic connections learn to be in commited relationships, but learn that their greenest grass always were the DFs. The DFs will, by being alone, and maybe trying to date others, learn to be strong enough on their own and not being crushed by others while understanding that their DMs are their divine match.
Both need to balance out their feminine and masculine energies to be ready for union. Through this, both will have healthy selfishness and healthy selflessness, meaning sufficiently enough amount of self-love 🙏❤️❤️❤️.
