TF-family, the separation phase is not only for the one TF to heal and transform. It’s for both to understand much more about themselves, clear karma, evolve, awaken spiritually, move towards their divine missions, etc.
Many DFs get triggered because they are told to clear obstacles on their side as well. Many of them just want the DMs to do the work and get them on their horses, so they can easily leave their spouses, situations, etc. Because that solution is the least scary one and the least one triggering their fearbased ego.
But let me ask you, DFs, do you think that your DMs will come back and then you and them can have a relationship while you still are married? Do you think Universe will allow a situation where you and your TFs are hurting a third party? Or do you think that Universe is making you challenge your fear and ego to do the right thing so that you can grow and feel empowered?
Don’t you see that Universe is making many TFs end all karmic intimate, sexual and loving relationships BEFORE harmonious union happens, or else the union won’t be harmonious? Because such karma needs to be cleared before harmonious union. Life 1.0 needs to end before Life 2.0 begins.
Many DFs really only point outwards on their DMs and don’t understand why everything is stale, but fail to realize that they themselves need to look at themselves, transform, and also do their own work.
This is a dual ride. Both TFs are transforming on many ways at the same time. Everything will happen in divine time, but many DFs are experts in not seeing inwards and understand what they need to fix on their side.
This journey is about us. Every TF should focus on how he/she can change the narrative instead of blaming their TFs. However, Universe will guide us 100% with the invisible hand, so surrender to the guidance, but don’t try to be ignorant and only blame your TF. Because…. ultimately…. both TFs have work to do on their own paths. This can be personal development, spiritual awakening, transformation, workrelated issues, clearing karma, being guided towards their divine missions, etc.
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