There have lately been topics and comments about TFs that can’t be dark. These are wrong. We have TFs, who have healed from such dark journeys and ended in harmonious union. Love is such a beautiful and strong thing that it heals even the worst of them.
Your TF can be dark and in huge ego before their egodeath and awakening. There are TFs in union or on their way to union who did hurt eachother. Very, very abusive TFs. My TF has changed a lot and also removed herself from a toxic karmic connection due to how I inspired her by the light. We had this soulcontract. Trust me, she was very toxic to me. Very! But this was our soulcontract so that we would transform eachother. She is not the same person as she was. The same with other DMs who hurt their DFs.
There are many layers to this.
1. Lessons on earth is about the duality here. Thus, all souls need to have the dark experience during their lifetimes here on earth. Light can’t exist without darkness. We can’t see the full worth of a candle if it’s not surrounded by pitch black darkness. We all have been in our shadow in this lifetime or others. For soulgrowth. We are learning this to not judge anyone.
2. It depends on the TF-journey and the singular missions for both TFs. Mine was dark for me (and her) to learn a lot about self-love and guiding both TFs and others to set boundaries and leave toxic situations. I wouldn’t have guided over 1000 TFs with self-love etc, if my TF and my catalyst-twin didn’t force me into huge transformation. Also, helping lots of non-TFs with self-love and boundaries.
3. Karmic clearance between the TFs. I had my dark and ego pastlife where I hurt her exactly as she has hurt me in this lifetime. We have karma to clear before we can get into union. She is mirroring to me in this lifetime what I did to her. I was a fullblown narcissist in that lifetime. Hurting her and many others. In this lifetime, I’m experiencing the other side of the coin and getting the whole perspective and soulgrowth.
4. The toxic TFs, before their egodeath and their awakening, will push the awakened TFs to set strong boundaries for their vibration. Thus, when the light TFs set strong boundaries, the darker TFs will mirror this, in divine time, to their toxic surroundings and karmics. They are hugely inspired by their lighter TFs. Often this happens between the DMs (in their toxic masculine energies) and the DFs (in their toxic feminine energies) for both to balance these energies to a healthy state.
5. This journey and high vibration is about self-love. The distorted ego, even the toxic one, lacks this. Thus, the healing for the darker TFs lies in loving themselves so that they don’t need to pursue their shadow ego.
6. Universe made the TF journey this way, because the TFs advocates real unconditional love. We will show others that even the darkest among us will be healed by the mighty power of love. This is why we have some TFs with very toxic TF-journeys. Unconditional love will challenge how conditional love on earth is being used wrongfully.
7. Even if TFs are toxic, the lesson is to set strong boundaries so that they will transform…. even if they live in our hearts and minds 24/7. To set boundaries towards someone you love immensely is a huge test in the strength of the TFs. But the lesson is to love our own souls equally. The more we love ourselves, the more we actually love our TFs and they love us, because we are same soul in two bodies. In divine time, everything will play out. The more we love them, the more they will start loving themselves as well.
8. It all serves a grander divine purpose. Every TF-journey is unique for a purpose so that we won’t judge. We are learning through this to not judge any soul or journey on earth. Because we now understand that every soul has their own soul experience to have in their current lifetime. The soul can’t die, so hurt/pain only exist in 3D/4D. It’s all about soulgrowth. To judge comes from ego.
9. We are also through all these TF-journeys learning about divine script, self-love to set boundaries and about unconditional love.
Much love 
