Many TFs wonder why their lives won’t continuously prosper or why they are stuck after their separation has started. After a grand time of transformation, they can feel stuck in limbo. They will try to run from the connection, but will get stuck in some sort of limbo. Many will try to date others, but after short or long term, these relationships will end.
This is Universe showing us that we can’t run from what is meant, and also that we won’t exhale without our TFs, even if he/she is responsible for us running. Universe is pushing us to pursue real unconditional love. We are also through this learning about lack of free will and soulcontracts and how they work.
Imagine you are stuck on an island with your TF. Only you and him. He/she is not what you want. You are a police officer and he is a criminal. You are light, he is dark. You are old, he is young. You still have that odd attraction to each other, but this is not a match based on how society or your ego sees relationships. You are not alike with different experiences and upbringing. You both can even have hurt each other previously.
Every time you try to leave this island on your own, you fail. Every single time and in every way possible. Because no one is meant to leave the island on their own.
So after both have tried to escape the island (on their own) in so many ways due to their egos, their egos will eventually be forced to understand that running from collaboration with the other TF, even if they are completely different in all aspects, won’t take them far on this island.
Universe is then slowly breaking the egos down and make both of them surrender of exhaustion. Both acting from the ego-space will never work.
After a long time on the island, both TFs will be so tired that they will understand that they don’t have any other option than to start to put their differences apart with forgiveness and healing of their egoistical traits.
Universe will push them to use their heart-spaces to make it work for both of them to get off this island. The same issues and triggers as before will arise, but both will now understand that using the ego, as they did before, won’t take them anywhere because they will fight and stop working together, so that their escape-plan will fail.
Thus, they will need to be more accepting and kinder of each other to get off this island. During this process, they will start to see the real and authentic soul in each others. They will start to become more understanding and less out of ego, so that their environment will become much vulnerable and safer. They will through this learn about each others’ weaknesses, vulnerabilities and strengths. Making them bond on levels previously not possible due to ego and external influences. Also, they will realize how good they can use their attributes and strengths together to easier get of this island.
Then, when they have sufficient enough faith, trust and love between themselves, they will manage to collaborate perfectly so that they finally will leave the island. Without ego and judgement of the past, but with renewed love and respect for who both of them are under their egos. They will eventually understand that they together form a power-couple in the way they managed to leave their island.
See the collective divine missions, that the TFs are meant to do together, as leaving the island together. See the process of them getting ready to leave the island, as the separation- and the first part of the reunion phase where the heart-space is needed instead of the ego.
This is why every single escape route, through other than our TFs, isn’t going to last or be very short.
Universe is forcing us to realize that our lives won’t be successful and something will be missing on our own. Universe is kicking our egos and our fears out of our bodies, so that we will love our TFs unconditionally for what they are now. The past was just what made them go through their soullessons. Also, both TFs will understand that they would be able to solve every friggin’ problem/obstacle when both of them use authentic and honest communication and unconditional love as a solution.
