The biggest lesson Universe is teaching us, is to not judge situations we are not involved in or have experienced ourselves. Especially in regards to the TF-journey.
We are supposed to be high vibrational souls, but still our ego is judging so many on this journey.
It’s pointless actually to listen to those that not have those dynamics you have and getting triggered by their words.
Lot’s of TFs who haven’t experienced the narcissist-empath dynamics, are the ones who judge these dynamics most. And some of them who judge, actually have spiritual narcissistic traitsβ¦ and are putting themselves on a pedestal. Lol. How the heck did they have more knowledge of your journey than you and your soul?
The same with those judging TFs who met their TFs while being married etc. Only a TF in that specific situation knows how that feels. I met my catalyst-twin while in a non-functioning marriage and can say that the spiritual connection and the soulcontracts are so intense, that only a person experiencing this will know.
Then we have had straight-TFs declining that TFs can be of same-sex. How the heck are they allowed to express on a matter they haven’t experienced themselves. I have talked and guided several TFs in same-sex journeys and can 100% verify that these are experiencing the same kind of beautiful heart-wrenching connection as the straight ones.
Guys, Universe has made the TF-collective so diverse and so similar for one reason only. To not judge, to experience that our ego doesn’t have all the answers, but, most important; to represent the earth perfectly, so that we would not make the mistakes religious leaders etc have done. We would not exclude. We will include. Oneness.
This lesson from Universe is very, very important. Can you imagine if we were meant to advocate love and light and at the same time exclude people? No, Universe loves everyone. And⦠from a bigger perspective everyone is playing an important role in the transformation in others. Without so many narcissists we have today (including some TFs before their ego is shattered), the good, naive and people-pleasing empaths would not work on their self-love, balance out their masculine energies and learn to set strict boundaries. Read this again and reflect on this matter.
Lessons in the Universe happens from tge duality; yin yang. Everything is connected and everyone is playing their role in this divine puzzle. So we better start to not judge, but rather be curious and include so that we get more knowledge and the bigger pictures.
I have now talked with 700-800 TFs and listened to their stories. I have gotten so much perspective and width in my understanding. Nothing literally surprises me anymore on this magical ride. Nothing. So I challenge you, if you have someone experiencing another journey than you, contact them. Be curious. Learn. Instead of judging them based on your ego.
Love, light and laughter β₯οΈπ₯π€£