Simply put; the more you love yourself, the more your TF will love you as much.
However, if they don’t love themselves as much, they will feel less than you, so you will trigger their self-love activation.
This is why Universe has made the dynamics such; so that both TFs will find inner-love before harmonious union happens. Harmonious union is not the same as physical union. Some TFs are helping to trigger and heal each others while in physical union. These can also be very testing until sufficient self-love is aquired.
So… if you want to get into union, work on your self-love 🙏♥️♥️♥️.
Your TF will mirror back how much you love yourself.
